Single men dating moms kids
That’s bad enough for you, but you should not be a party to putting a child through that.3) Being around the child(ren) exposes you to false charges of abuse.
If the child likes you, if you’re nice to the child, that’s no insurance against false accusations. These children are more likely to have mental and emotional problems.
Depending on what is happening with the child’s biological father, how much time the child spends around you, paying for the child, and buying gifts for the child (think birthdays, Christmas, etc.), you can end up getting tagged for child support.
All it takes is some judge or government official picking YOU to pay for the child’s needs rather than taxpayers.
She has demonstrated already that she doesn’t know how to effectively use contraception OR otherwise doesn’t make good choices because she made children with the wrong guy (most likely)*, and has demonstrated that she WANTS to be a mother as she kept the child.
Once a woman is a mother, she is less reluctant to avoid pregnancy.
Even if you’re just dating her and don’t want to get married, if the father(s) of the child(ren) is/are in the picture, that is likely going to be even more of a hassle for you.So not only will you not be getting sex, but you’re going to have to hang out at Chuck E.Cheese’s AND pay for the child’s meals and entertainment.This reason alone should eliminate single mothers from your consideration.4) You WILL have to pay more than if you date a childless woman.First it will start off with having to pay for babysitters, and then she will want to have “dates” on which the child(ren) will come along.